Since young, I love drawing the bride and the gown! I did drew a few of my own design gowns when I was still very young and I remembered, my cousin sis, the one who taught me to draw a bride’s gown!
I was impressed by her drawing plus my own imagination, hence I came out of my own design too. (kids’ world) Unfortunately, I am not on a design field now, but my hope and dreams are still there in the “wedding” gown’s world! Who knows, maybe one day, I might go back! =)
I love weddings definitely! I love seeing everyone’s happy face and I enjoy the ambience of sweet romance in the hall of wedding and I would be glad to see the blissfulness that shined upon the faces of the couple! After all, it’s all about a very happy moment that no one can deny that!
I’m holding on the faith to believe in true love
However, reality in life proved me wrong for thousand of time, I should come back to the real world and not be living in a wonderful world of my own. I’ve lost some bit of my faith and I’m scare to commit anymore. The more I grew, the more I realized I am wrong on the concept of a marriage. It’s not as much blissful as what I can imagine, not for the photo, neither on the wedding! That’s hurt!
Come to my own experiences. As we always said we love a person for who they are. Somehow, it is not as easy as a saying could do. We should understand that the two peoples are brought up from a different families and background, hence some customs, culture, style of living and many other more just couldn’t “click” into a 100% perfect picture. How then?
To reach a compromise is tough! The two different “alien” have to take effort to change a little, here and there, so that to work out together. In the stage of staying together and if one of them failed to compromise, and this is for sure, no matter how strong is the love in within the two, it will die soon.
Never take your love one for granted
A lot of us used to forget what is care and concern, when we can easily reach each other in a daily life. We thought that, why should we care so much since they have the ability to move around, they wouldn't get starve and the capability to handle themselves well? But have you ever ask yourself, why would you care so much when they are yet to be your girlfriend/boyfriend? Don’t you tell me, that time, they don’t own a pair of hands and legs and they have no brain? It doesn’t make sense right?
For all the time, we used to have that someone by our side yet we’ve forgot to remembered that if we don’t appreciate the love & efforts done and someday somebody might go for others too. So never take your love ones for granted. This is a very serious “offence” in a marriage!
Don’t cry, babe!
I remember there is a saying, “someone who truly love you will never make you cry!” This is so true for my first instance. However, I realized we only cry for our love ones! We love, that’s why we care so much to be hurt! You won’t hurt so much if a someone who you don’t care come and pour shit on you, isn’t it? Same theory applied. That’s why it's so true on that saying!A person who truly loves you won’t make you cry out of sadness!
A girl cries because of a guy who she truly loves hurt her deeply and you said u felt so heart pain on the girl. While when you see your girlfriend cries when you’re hurting her, you scolded her disgusting! What the.. ?! This is because human can hardly realized own mistake but for others, they can see clearly! So ironical, isn’t it?
If you cry too hard for a relationship, just go! We don’t use tears to build a relationship but a pure love do. If that person can never be the right one, why drag? It is like playing a sweet melody to a bull, make sense?
I’m still here because of I love you
Because of us are all living in a modern world today that we can have our choices of love. We pick the one that we love and the one that who loves us back. In short, the love birds that tight to each other. Since we love each other, so what problem then?
Only if we learn to be more understanding, to have a matured mind on head and a heart of concerned, everything would be seemed so perfect! Yes, ONLY IF we understood what is it about commitment, and we could survive our love!
Since, you’re my chosen one, I love you and I would try hard to mend myself and there’s a light hope deep inside me to wish that you could compromise a bit and please understand that I am only human (gal) too, that sometimes, I’m such an emo. Please forgive me like I understand that you’re the man and have a role to play in the relationship as well.
Married someone who you truly love and you think he/she is the right one ONLY
Marry a person not because of you have the urge of getting marry. Not because of an age matter. Not because of your friends are all getting married and you followed too. And BIG NO to because of a wedding gown!!
Sometimes, it’s the cruel fact that stops us from marrying a person that we truly in love with. (due to a lot of unwanted reasons) However, a RIGHT person could be the one who you will love until to the end of your life. He/she is the one who could make your life right and wonderful and he/she is the one who are willing to hold you forever in the rest of your life! They have love you enough for you to have love them back! That's right!
So marry a RIGHT person only and the love will never die! Your right one could assure you with security, care and love on mouth and he is definitely going to prove you by action! Action always speaks louder than word. If no word, no action means he is the wrong guy. Let the wrong one go before the new one can come in. (remember)
If he is the wrong one. Let go!
If he is the right one. Grab him!
If you're still haven’t get one, pray for a RIGHT one to come! ^^
p.s. If only there is a blessed wedding, there is a stairway to heaven! If only I’ve met the so called Mr.Right, would I wear on the wedding gown!
