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Friday, December 16, 2011

Christmas is all about blessing! Why?





It is a day of remembering our dear Lord Jesus Christ! Ever since HE was born, we were all saved and blessed! So the whole of the December month is always the lovely month that coupled with sweet and joyful Christmas carols and fun filled decorations of trees and gift and most importantly it is a blessing month for all!

It’s a season of thankful and being blessed. It’s the carols that comfort and ease every hearts! So I really love listening to Christmas carols! It feels like you are being showered in the joy and it’s never ending joys!!

“Ho ho ho.. Santa Clause is coming to town …” the other day, one of my friend was asking me how if Santa grant you a wish on Christmas and what would it be yours? Ahh, I think for a second, without hesitation and say I would like to ask Santa to sponsor me a trip back to my home for CNY! Hehh, was I sound weird? What? During Christmas season and I’m making a wish to go back for CNY on the next month? Yes, as I couldn’t make it to go home for this time Christmas, it’s sad. Time and financial concerns wont allowed me to do so. In the other hand, I would like to take this opportunity to really celebrate Christmas here since it might be my very last Christmas here before I’m moving away permanently. So I got no complain. Hence to know that I could be able to go back for CNY is good enough. Unfortunately, transportation to go back is one of the big headache. Thus, I got such little wish on this Christmas!

After all, I m not too greedy isn’t it? and guess what? The very few next days, my wish was granted! I told my friend and he don’t kinda believe it! haha, he asked me, are you sure Santa has given you your wish? I said yes yes!! I always know when you have a heart that believes and you will get the blessing! =) I believe that Santa has told my darling about this and he is sending him here to give me a free ride to go home for CNY! How nice and sweet?

Other than the wish above, I’m blessed additional “gift” on this Christmas too! First, it’s the good news that he has found the alternative way to cure his sickness instead of going thru a surgery that worried most of us! Secondly, when I thought I would be alone on this Christmas, and he is making it to come back for our very 1st Christmas here! (basically it’s just not at hometown) To know that your love one would be back to be together with you on this blessing season, isn’t it feels warm? Haaaa.. I’m so happy and thanks Santa for those additional wishes that prayed inside my heart!

So, really, blessing it doesn't need to be wrapped in a nicely gift box or being spent by a huge amount of money. A simple act of love could be a worthwhile one and being appreciated. I do really love my Christmas gift this year! So, what is your wish or what is the gift that you want from a Santa Clause? Should you tell/asked and believe like I do?












Ps. Wishing on something and believing that you are getting it and you will! =) Be merry, everyone!!


Monday, December 12, 2011

我很忙




A-Lin - 我很忙 MV ~~~~作詞:鄔裕康 作曲:施佳陽
不需要假期
我沒地方可去
不需要狂歡
人群只是空虛
多數的關心
只是嘴上說說而已
真正懂我的人是自己

我的眼睛一作夢就看到你
一閉上就想哭泣
笑容忽然間變成奢侈品
我的生活
充滿了和你有關的記憶
每每靠近
滿城風雨

就讓我忙的瘋掉
忙的累倒
連哭的時間都沒有最好
就讓我忙的忘掉
你的懷抱
他曾帶給我的美好
當有人問好不好
怕傷心奪眶就咬牙說我很忙
這完美的謊
完美的偽裝
才讓我的痛沒人看到

我的眼睛一作夢就看到你
一閉上就想哭泣
笑容忽然間變成奢侈品
你在哪裡
曾是每天要問你的一句
我要戒斷
這種關心

就讓我忙的瘋掉
忙的累倒
連哭的時間都沒有最好
就讓我忙的忘掉
你的懷抱
他曾帶給我的美好
當有人問好不好
怕傷心奪眶就咬牙說我很忙
這完美的話
話完美的偽裝
才讓我的痛沒人看到

當一個麻痺的人
哪有多好
心裡沒別的只有忙忙忙
工作是一種抵抗
一帖解藥
人怎能被想念打倒
當有人問好不好
怕傷心奪眶就咬牙說我很忙
這完美的謊
完美的偽裝
才讓我的痛沒人看到



p.s. something that word alone couldn't be explained much; ironically all the inner feeling can be sang by a song!!Y.Y

Thursday, December 01, 2011

Give & Take


How to define the give and take in a relationship?

Guy’s version of give:
He cater her daily needs as of food, shelter, entertainment, transport and so on
All he can do is just dealing with money and he really thought money could satisfy a girl’s need and he thinks that girl should really satisfy with what has been provided by not complaining any.

Guy’s version of take:
He is looking for understanding, trust and respect from his girl.
He needs all that from the girl so that only he could really concentrate on his career!

Gal’s version of give:
She will do all the sweet stuffs like greet and hug him while meeting up with him, kiss morning before she goes to work and kiss goodnight before she off to bed, cook whenever she can (but she never expects him to abandon her cooking!), hold his hand whenever in the car or at the public, make lovely card and some special gift for their important days. She remembers all the important days of them and care to spend time together.

Gal’s version of take:
She needs lot of attention, companion, loving care and tender love. Money alone couldn’t buy heart that really loves! She needs a smile and a comfort hug while she is down from unhappy stuffs. She needs a pair of ears that listen and a general heart to accept her as she is.


Unfortunately the give and take didn’t always co-exist as expected. It’s so difficult to reach a compromise for the two persons that don’t really understand each other’s need! To live a life together can never be easy neither shall I say to find a soulmate that really click?


p.s. However nothing is easy, if you really love a person, you get to change yourself first before you demand others to change for you. It is equally applied to this quote: “you shall love yourself before someone else could love you too!” and this, you gained respect from others by you respecting them in the first place. We are all living in a community that we couldn’t survive alone, so learn to coat yourself with the culture of give and take, to make the living in among human, much more easy and simple!

Love the one of your chosen one!