Be flexible - no hArd rules!

I used to hold everything in life so tight that I would never want to give up or let go any single ones! In short I am such a stubborn baga!

On things that I’ve failed for many times still I wont heart dies and keep on doing the damn things I do. Thinking of to get a beautiful result at the end of the day but usually this is not so.

Keep insisting on things that I would never want to let go never bring me any good but suffer a lot! So why holding on? I ask myself? Why care so much? Once again I ask myself!

I hold things too tight and I care too much till I get things messed up. Tired, then only I realised I could no longer hold everything in life as tight as I wish. This is not my world and this is not about what I want. What I can do is to do my very best and move on without turning back. No regrets and no more complaint.

I tried to let go and I felt relief. When you no longer care so much but just do whatever that need to be done and you will get a piece of your peaceful mind back, then you can think wisely and act calmly.

For those who are still blaming on other people’s fault, they will never learn and hence never improve. Sad for them. Some people just take a long time to see things work. Well, everything takes times and please give time, time.



p.s. lesson for life, there’s a price to pay! Move on move on.. heavy butt! :p *be flexible – no hard rules*